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We encourage you to participate and submit materials. In fact, in order for the Bulletin Board section to be effective, we rely on you to send us announcements about upcoming activities in your church area that other singles may be interested in attending. (Click the “Contact Us” button on the menu to the left.)

2008 Kansas City Labor Day Weekend group shot. Right-click and select "View Image" if you want to see it full size.

Last Modified: June 1, 2009

From the Webmaster
4/25/08:

The old Elist is now gone. To register on the new system click the following link: https://www.ucgsingles.org/sslregister.php.

Remember to be on the new Elist, you must have the approval of your local UCG pastor. All other pages (except the Elist with Bios) remains available to anyone without registering.

--Ken Treybig, Webmaster

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Image is Everything

Image is an appearance that leads people to form an immediate impression. Image can also be based on repeated instances of experience or actions that lead to a reputation. Cities have an image. Sports franchises, schools, products, and corporations all have an image. On my daily walk through our neighborhood I pass by scores of homes. Some have nicely kept yards and, from the curb, seem to be appealing and pleasant. Others, not so much. It's all a matter of image.

Image is something, but is it everything?

I saw a cartoon some time ago that pictured a doctor in an examination room telling his plump patient, "Mr. Smith - you've got to get in shape." The patient's response was, "But doctor, I have a shape - this is it. Round is a shape." Just as we all have a shape, we also all have an image. What's your image?

Personal image is important in the world of dating. We want people to like us, we want to look our best and fit into a social group. We want to be known as interesting, funny and fun-loving. Wanting others to think of us in a positive way isn't entirely wrong. It's part of our image.

When we consider the word more carefully, it turns out that the cliché is right - image really is everything. The question is, "What is image?"

Sadly, many people confuse appearance with image. If we superficially reject someone based on their appearance, we may very well overlook a person of tremendous talent and value. (If you've not heard of Susan Boyle, try doing an Internet search on her name and you'll find a powerfully uplifting story.)

In Colossians 3, Paul helps us understand the value and importance of our personal image. The subject is our need to change our nature. Paul uses the analogy of putting off the "old man" and putting on a "new man" (verses 9-10). In the Greek, the words translated "putting off" and "putting on" literally have to do with a change of clothes. We're told to "put off" the inappropriate, out-of-style, unfashionable "clothing" of our old way of life and "put on" an updated, fashionably-correct wardrobe that reflects the qualities and mind of Jesus Christ. In verse 10, he writes "[you] have clothed yourselves with the new self, which is being renewed in knowledge according to the image of its creator" (New Revised Standard Version).

In Paul's analogy, clothing is a metaphor for character. What we "wear" is a projection of our image. The Greek word translated image is eikon, which means profile, likeness or resemblance. Paul's point is that our image should project a likeness of, or resemblance to, Jesus Christ.

The English word "icon" is from derived this Greek word and is used in several ways. One definition of icon is "a name, face, picture or symbol that is readily recognized by most people to represent some well-known entities or attributes." As Christians, our image should represent the attributes of Jesus Christ.

We should reflect His standards and values outwardly in a way others can immediately see by our example in conduct, language, grooming, friendliness, and genuine concern for others. Those qualities aren't superficial or just for appearance. They are an expression of the image of Jesus Christ as we "put on" the attributes of character Paul described in Colossians 3.

As we present ourselves to others in an acceptable manner on a social level, we should also carefully concentrate on developing the "inward man." Because image is everything.

Don Henson


Words of Wisdom:

" I used to have a handle on life, but it broke."

--Anonymous

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What's New
6/1/09 - New lead page article--and update on the site.
5/25/09 - Added photos of the East Texas Memorial Day Weekend event. Click here for the direct link, or visit either bulletin board for the link under "Past Events".
5/22/09 - New lead page article--and update on the site.
5/22/09 - Garden Grove announces their July 16-19 Youth Weekend for young adults and teens. See Young Singles bulletin board.
4/24/09 - Added new details on East Texas Memorial Day Weekend event, including schedule, costs, registration, etc. See either bulletin board.
4/22/09 - New lead page article.
4/22/09 - Added July 4th event in Kansas City. See either bulletin board.
4/5/09 - New lead page article.
4/5/09 - East Texas congregation announces singles event being planned for Memorial Day weekend. See either bulletin board.
3/24/09 - New lead page article.
1/30/09 - Added SE regional Prom on Young Singles bulletin board and Cincinnati Winter Dance to both bulletin boards.
1/18/09 - New lead page article.
12/31/08 - New lead page article.

12/14/08 - Added link to 2008 Kansas City Labor Day Weekend. See either bulletin board.
Switched lead page photo to their group shot & moved to center.

12/12/08 - New lead page article.
11/23/08 - New lead page article.
11/7/08 - New lead page article.
10/9/08 - The Winter Family Weekend is "on" despite Hurricane Ike. See details on either bulletin board.
10/1/08 - New lead page article.
9/12/08 - New lead page article.
8/19/08 - New lead page article.
8/15/08 - There are several new book reviews--"Getting Serious about Getting Married" and "Where Have All the Good Men Gone?" See the Book Reviews page..
8/1/08 - New lead page article. We got busy with summer camps and other things. Sorry, but we're ready to get back to posting new items.
6/6/08 - New lead page article.
6/6/08 - Old lead page articles now archived on Bible Studies/Articles page.
5/28/08 - New lead page article.
5/28/08 - Information about the Southern CA bash on July 17-20. See Young Singles bulletin board.
5/28/08 - The deposit deadline for the Kansas City Labor Day Weekend event has been extended! See either bulletin board.
4/25/08 - New lead page article.
4/11/08 - The "agreed upon" singles Feast site for this year was canceled due to slow response. See Current Feast page.
4/2/08 - Onine polling option for choice of Feast site for singles is available. See 2008 Singles Site announcement.
3/28/08 - An option was proposed for an "agreed upon" Feast site for singles this year if there is enough interest. See Current Feast page.
3/20/08 - New lead page article.
3/20/08 - Udpated announcement about the Kansas City Labor Day Weekend singles event. See either bulletin board.

3/15/08 - Site programming change announced. The current Elist will disappear soon to be replaced by a new one that includes only those affiliated with the United Church of God. To be on the new list a local pastor or his representative will need to approve your request.
The other pages will remain open to the public--only the Elist will be affected.
All users who want to be on the Elist must register again under the new system. Scroll down under the "Restricted Pages/New Site Registration" heading in the menu area on the left and click the "Register" button. Or click here to go to the registration page.

2/22/08 - Kansas City Labor Day Weekend singles event. See either bulletin board.
Past Activities
Dallas Young Adults weekend, Feb 15-17, 2008. See Young Singles bulletin board.
Annual Cincinnati winter dance for 2008. See either bulletin board.

2007 Winter Family Weekend info. Check either bulletin board, Singles in the Middle and Young Singles.

Site History
3/15/08 - Site was revised to require approval from local UCG pastor to be on Elist after numerous complaints .
12/15/04 - Revised the site after moving to another host.
9/27/04 - BIOS, Interests, and automatic age calculation is now available by updating your Registration.

This whole site as of April 2002

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Reviewers:
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Carol Taylor

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